First dates are often considered as frightening by many couples. Generally, you may find it difficult but the key is to take it easy and do whatever comes to your mind at that moment. Although you know that first impressions are very important, it removes some of the pressure from you "to perform" and decide that you are going to be yourself. If you are making a decision for yourself that you are going to have good time, then probably you may have.

Firstly, make yourself comfortable that whatever the date you are going for makes you feel happy. If your date suggests going sailing but if you suffer from sea-sickness, then suggest an alternative. You can ask for visiting the latest art exhibition or any new movie that has just been released. But be sure that, whatever you choose should be of fun and excitement for both of you and which will definitely take the pressure off you to entertain or amuse your partner with conversation.

The following are some of the ideas you need to follow before you go on your first date:

Give yourself enough time – Do not try and rush your preparation within two minutes. Give yourself enough time to prepare for getting ready, and also cover eventualities.
Go to the toilet - If you get nervous this probably happens quite often. Make sure you are not caught short as soon as you turn up.
Plan your journey - If you are going some place you are not much familiar with, do not trust that you will get there in time, check out your trains, flights or other schedules in advance.
Clothing - Try and agree in advance up to which level you can dress. If you turn up in jeans and they are ready for a garden party at the palace then it might be pretty embarrassing.
Buy one of those breath sprays - Well, it is not going to do any harm, is it?
Relax and be yourself - Unless and until you have a really unpleasant personality.

Women should not keep men waiting for a long time while they are getting ready. Sometimes it helps to have a cocktail before you leave the woman's house to break the ice a little. It is just important to be patient, as sometimes the other person is as nervous as you are and does not necessarily express anything but awkwardness or anxiety for the first few minutes. Possibly the best place to meet your date is a record shop - you can always browse the shelves while you're waiting, and if you get stood up, you can at least pick up a few bargains in the process.

According to relationship experts, the best way to keep your date attracted is to always have them identify you with the idea of excitement. Do not be afraid to show a little spontaneity by suggesting that you take a walk in the park or explore a new attraction after your date.